Gynesexual, sometimes spelled gynosexual, is a sexual identity similar to pansexual, heterosexual, or bisexual. Gynesexuality specifically refers to an attraction to femininity. It is important to understand the distinction between gynesexual and gynephilic—while gynephilia refers to a sexual attraction to women, gynesexuality involves attraction to femininity in general. In this article, we explore what it means to be gynesexual and how to support people who identify with this sexual orientation.

What Does Gynesexual (Gynosexual) Mean?

To be gynesexual means to be attracted to individuals who identify as female or display stereotypically feminine characteristics. The person someone is attracted to could be male, female, transgender, or nonbinary. Unlike many other sexual identities, gynesexuality does not specify the gender of the person feeling the attraction. People who identify as gynesexual may also identify as male, female, nonbinary, or another gender identity.

Gynesexuality refers specifically to an attraction to femininity, regardless of the gender of the individual expressing it. This broadens the spectrum of attraction and challenges traditional gender norms. For example, a person who identifies as nonbinary and loves people who identify as women could identify as gynesexual. This makes it clear that being gynesexual is about who you are attracted to, not necessarily about your own gender.

Gynesexuality vs Gynephilia

Gynesexuality is distinct from gynephilia, a term often used in sexual psychophysiology research. Gynephilia refers specifically to a sexual attraction to women, usually with lower physical genital responses to erotic stimuli from men. This term is more rigidly defined and accepted in the medical community, describing attraction to women exclusively.

In contrast, gynesexuality includes the attraction to femininity, not necessarily tied to a specific gender. Gynesexuals might feel attracted to anyone who embodies femininity, whether that person identifies as female, male, transgender, or nonbinary. This shows how gynesexuality is more fluid and inclusive of different gender expressions, offering a wider understanding of attraction.

Gynesexuality vs Androsexuality

Gynesexuality is conceptually similar to androsexuality, but it focuses on the opposite end of the spectrum. While gynesexual individuals are attracted to feminine people, androsexual individuals are attracted to men or people who express masculinity. These two identities, though not always opposites, illustrate how attraction can be influenced by gender expression rather than just gender identity.

Gynesexuality and androsexuality allow individuals to describe their attractions more precisely, without being confined to heterosexual or homosexual categories. These terms give a broader spectrum of sexual identities, enabling people to better articulate who they are attracted to and how they experience sexual attraction.

Exploring Gynesexuality

Gynesexuality overlaps with other sexual identities, making it a flexible way to describe someone’s attraction to various gender identities. For example, a cisgender man or woman might be attracted to both feminine women and feminine men. In this case, they may identify as gynesexual to describe their attraction, as gynesexuality focuses on feminine traits, not gender identity.

American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT) certified sex educator Barbara Carrellas explains that gynesexuality describes who you are attracted to, not your gender identity. "Anyone could be gynesexual," says Carrellas, because the term applies to anyone attracted to femininity, regardless of their own gender identity.

For nonbinary individuals who are attracted to women or feminine people, identifying as gynesexual can provide clarity and help others understand their sexual orientation. In short, gynesexuality allows for a more nuanced understanding of sexual attraction that transcends traditional gender boundaries.

Helping Others Understand Gynesexuality

The terms gynesexuality and androsexuality are not new, but they have not always been widely recognized outside of specific communities. Using these terms in conversations can help broaden people's understanding of the diversity of sexual orientations.

Gynesexuality is often found in queer spaces, and those who use the term outside of these communities may need to explain it. Having open conversations about different sexual orientations allows people to learn more and encourages inclusivity. As Carrellas points out, "We need more precise words to describe the infinite shades and flavors of sexual attraction and desire."

Understanding that sexuality exists on a spectrum can help people with different sexual identities embrace them without fear of judgment. According to AASECT-certified sexuality educator Elizabeth Boskey, PhD, embracing the diversity of sexual attraction will make it less likely for people to judge themselves or others for being different.

Supporting People Who Identify as Gynesexual

Despite the growing awareness of the LGBTQ+ community, people are still often shamed for not fitting into traditional sexual orientation categories like straight, gay, or lesbian. Here are a few ways you can support people of any sexual orientation, including those who are gynesexual:

  • Active support and advocacy: It's important to advocate for people of all sexual orientations, especially when their identities are misunderstood or stigmatized.

  • Understand that gender identity is independent of sexual orientation: Sexual attraction and gender identity are separate concepts, and it’s essential to respect both.

  • Ask respectful questions: If someone identifies as gynesexual, ask open-ended, respectful questions to understand their identity better. Be honest, reassuring, and open to learning.

  • Allow others to share on their own terms: People may prefer to disclose their sexual identity in their own time and in their own way.

Creating a space where individuals feel comfortable expressing their sexual identities can foster meaningful relationships and deeper understanding.

A Quick Review

Gynesexuality is a sexual identity for people who are attracted to femininity, regardless of their own gender. It is distinct from gynephilia, which specifically refers to attraction to women. Gynesexuality also differs from androsexuality, which focuses on attraction to masculinity. Understanding the term gynesexual and educating others about it can help people embrace their identities, promote inclusivity, and foster better relationships.

Supporting individuals who identify as gynesexual means respecting their orientation and creating a space for open conversations about sexual identity. It's important to continue advocating for precise, inclusive terms that allow everyone to express their attractions without judgment or confusion.